ANAL SEX – the Pleasure, 6 Dangers and 7 Safety tips

Anal sex is basically “the insertion and thrusting of the erect penis into a person’ anus for sexual pleasure”

But it also includes fingering, penetration with sex toys like dildoes and, anilingus— anal oral sex.

Basically, anal sex allows the stimulation of the prostate gland through the wall of the rectum, something which is reportedly highly pleasurable for both men and women.

However, there are a number of health risks associated with it.

In fact, anal sex has been described as the riskiest form of sexual activity.

The reasons are obvious:

1. The anus lacks the natural lubrication of the vagina so penetration can tear the tissue inside– even when lubricants are used – and allow bacteria and viruses to enter the bloodstream, leading to the possible spread of sexually transmitted infections (STIs).

2. Some studies suggested that anal exposure anal sex presents 30 times more risk for HIV than virginal sex

3. Exposure to the human papillomavirus (HPV) may also lead to the development of anal warts and anal cancer

4. The tissue inside the anus is not as well protected against infection, which leaves it vulnerable to tearing and the spread of infection.

5. The anus is surrounded with a ring-like muscle (anal sphincter) which tightens after we defecate. Now, repetitive anal sex may lead to weakening of the anal sphincter, making it difficult to hold in feces until you can get to the toilet – you might need diapers

6. The anus is full of bacteria and even where both partners do not have STIs, the bacteria in the anus can infect the giving partner.

Now, for those who still want to have the anal sex experience, you need to take care of your health and well-being.

Follow these tips:

1. Avoid inserting a penis into the mouth or vagina after it’s been inserted in the anus until your partner puts on a new condom.

2. Use plenty of lubricant to reduce the risk of tissue tears. With latex condoms, always use a water-based lubricant.

3. Relax prior to insertion of the penis to help reduce the risk of tears.

4. Taking a warm bath before anal sex or lying on your stomach may make insertion easier.

5. Stop if anal sex is painful and if you bleed after anal sex, get medical help because it could be a haemorrhoid or tear, or something more serious such as a hole in the colon

6. If you experience bleeding after anal sex or you notice a sores or lumps around the anus or a discharge coming from it, see your doctor as soon as possible.

7. NOTE: Practicing vaginal sex immediately after anal sex can also lead to vaginal and urinary tract infections!!!

In conclusion, it must be noted that the only way to completely avoid anal sex risks is to abstain from

anal sex entirely – if you can’t handle it, DON’T DO IT.

You should not let your partner or peers pressureyou into it.

Do it only if you want to and you are ready!